Yes to all of the emotions. I’m starting over with one of my kids who has been struggling for many years. He will get there. I know that but i really understand the tears. All the years of uplifting them through the most difficult times every single day. No easy task. Great writing Serena! I really can relate!
I so remember those tear-filled days after my daughter left for college. Then the multiple times she went across the world to study and later work. I feel your pain. We mothers grow so close to our daughters, and the partings are painful!
You captured the experience so well! Wonderful writing!
This is beautiful and a wonderful template for others:
“I’m trying to slow down to appreciate everyday quiet moments. I’m spending more time in our garden, noticing the butterflies and flowers, taking walks with our rambunctious dog, and journaling my feelings. I’m leaning on people who love me, like my husband, my friends, and my family.”
My twins are not neurodiverse. They will go off to college in four years and I’m dreading it.
Yes to all of the emotions. I’m starting over with one of my kids who has been struggling for many years. He will get there. I know that but i really understand the tears. All the years of uplifting them through the most difficult times every single day. No easy task. Great writing Serena! I really can relate!
Thanks Leslie! So appreciate you! I'm so glad you really understand the tears! Rooting for your son.
I so remember those tear-filled days after my daughter left for college. Then the multiple times she went across the world to study and later work. I feel your pain. We mothers grow so close to our daughters, and the partings are painful!
You captured the experience so well! Wonderful writing!
Thanks so much, JoDee! You really understand! :)
This is beautiful and a wonderful template for others:
“I’m trying to slow down to appreciate everyday quiet moments. I’m spending more time in our garden, noticing the butterflies and flowers, taking walks with our rambunctious dog, and journaling my feelings. I’m leaning on people who love me, like my husband, my friends, and my family.”
My twins are not neurodiverse. They will go off to college in four years and I’m dreading it.
Thank you for this heartfelt essay. 🙏
I feel you, James! Thanks for sharing. I imagine every transition is doubly challenging and beautiful with twins!
Week after week I read your shared wisdom and learn something from you. Keep sharing! We need you.
Thanks so much, Jane!